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When it comes to a happy marriage , different people hold different opinions . most young people believe that romantic love is the most important for a happy marriage, while quite a lot of older people maintain that a marriage based on romance alone will not last long, for a sense of responsibility is most essential to a happy marriage.

It’s probably true that different generations differ in their opinions about the basic conditions of marriage. Young people tend to deem romantic love the top priority in marriage. To them, marriage devoid of romantic love should be as dull as ditch water and would therefore be not a blessing, but a curse.

Nevertheless, older generations prefer to view marriage the other way around. They maintain that marriage leads to maturity, and a happy marriage can only be achieve when husband and wife are willing to face all the adversities in life together, and are able to cultivate happiness in countless insignificant daily activities. Too keen an anticipation of romantic elements in marriage, they believe, can spell immense disappointment

Personally speaking, I hold quit a different notion on marriage from either of the views mentioned above. I advocate the idea that a happy marriage should be the blending of romance, duty, mutual trust and communication.

romantic love should be celebrated as a necessity or even a must in life, without which life will be less interesting .A couple should maintain the romantic love throughout their marital life. To do so, they can go to the cinemas, the park together,they can also give each other surprises by remembering the other’s birthdays and buying gifts from time to time.

While, romantic love is not everything. Anyone who wants to get married should be aware that marriage is a new start of life: there are a multitude of tedious routine duties waiting to be fulfilled. mutual trust is also important. It is not only the most basic emotional quality between a married couple ,but also is the only thing one wife or one husband needs when they are in trouble. communication is also vital. Marriage means you are not alone any

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opinions ,feelings ,hobbies and many other aspects in your life with your husband or wife ，otherwise this marriage has lost its real meaning .Also if you always hide your feelings toward him or her ,the marriage can hardly last long.In this way ,I believe that communication leads a happy marriage. What's more ,you should try to understand your partner and concern what he or she needs ,do your best to help overcome the difficulties together.